What I Learned From Trying Something New for 30 Days
A few years ago, I felt stuck in a rut. So I decided to run an experiment: pick something I'd always wanted to do and commit to it for the next 30 days.
The idea is simple. Think of something you'd like to add to your life — or subtract, like watching the news — and try it for a month. It turns out 30 days is just about the right amount of time to pick up a new habit or drop an old one. Here's what the experiment taught me.
Time Becomes Memorable
For one of the challenges, I took a picture every single day for a month. The strange part is that, instead of the weeks blurring together and slipping away forgotten, I remember exactly where I was and what I was doing on each of those days. The months stopped vanishing without a trace.
Confidence Grows With Every Challenge
As the challenges got bigger and harder, my self-confidence grew right along with them. I went from a desk-dwelling computer nerd to the kind of guy who bikes to work for fun. I even ended up hiking Mount Kilimanjaro, the highest mountain in Africa. Before I started these challenges, I never would have been that adventurous.
If You Want It Badly Enough, You Can Do Almost Anything
Every November, tens of thousands of people try to write a 50,000-word novel from scratch in 30 days. The math is simple: 1,667 words a day for a month. So I did it. The trick is not to go to sleep until you've hit your word count for the day — you might end up sleep-deprived, but you'll finish your novel.
Is my book the next great American novel? Not even close. I wrote it in a month, and it's awful. But now, if I want to, I can call myself a novelist.
Small Changes Are the Ones That Stick
The most valuable lesson came at the end: when I made small, sustainable changes — things I could actually keep doing — they were far more likely to stick. Big, crazy challenges are a ton of fun, but they're also harder to sustain. When I gave up sugar for 30 days, day 31 looked a lot like going right back to it.
So What Are You Waiting For?
Here's the thing I can guarantee: the next 30 days are going to pass whether you like it or not. So the question writes itself. Why not think of something you've always wanted to try and give it a shot for the next month?
Vocabulary
- I felt like I was stuck in a rut.
- I decided to follow in the footsteps of my father and become a teacher.
- It turns out that I was wrong.
- Why don't you give it a shot?
- you might be sleep deprived